Changes

Yesterday we got news.
1) we had to get rid of the chickens and ducks, we don't meet the 200 foot setback required in our little city.
2) we are pregnant with our 4th baby

Therefor, we decided to move. Now we need to decide where we want to move.
1) I want to move out of Florida, I hate Florida. I have wanted to move to Washington state since I was 13 years old. When Hubs and I were dating he also said he wanted to move to Washington State, his plan was to move in 2 years.
2) Hubs doesn't want to move to Washington, he wants to stay in Florida and work on growing his business. His new plan is to work even MORE. Because you know working 13-16 hour days won't be enough now that we will have 4 babies.

How I feel about staying in Florida and Hubs working more
1) I understand his dream is to have his own business and that he really doesn't want to work for anybody.
2) I think planning on working more then he already does is selfish, he blatantly said that this is what he wants and he will make it happen "at what cost?" I asked.I REALLY don't want to be a mom alone with 4 kids, even more alone then I have been with 3.

So it will take more discussion and compromise, as long as it isn't just me compromising I can deal with this.

Oh and if you read this comment here, don't say anything on facebook yet.